Strap-ons. They seem like a lot of fun, yea? Well what about strap-ons that vibrate? And what if you could control those vibrations by remote control? Ohhh yes, remote control vibrating strap-ons are a whole lot of fun!
For male/female couples – why not turn the tables and put the lady of the house in charge of some ‘giving’? There’s even remote control strap-ons specially designed for pegging.
For same-sex female couples – one partner can take charge with their very own strap-on ready for penetration. Or, if you’re more inclined to equal opportunities, why not share a remote control double ended dildo?
Standard remote control strap-ons
So ‘standard’ probably isn’t a word you’d associate with strap-ons, but there is a particular style of you probably have in your mind already when you think of them: a cock shaped member, that you quite literally strap on with a harness.
Lovehoney Desire Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit
The Lovehoney Desire Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit pretty much ticks all of those boxes. Although the purple dildo isn’t ‘quite’ cock-like, it’s secured by the three-point harness we’ve come to expect.
The kit comes with its own, matching purple remote which controls two powerful motors, with 12 vibration speeds and 8 patterns.
There’s nothing too fancy about this one – but in a good way. The harness is secure enough to take plenty of abuse, and the vibrations are strong. This is a safe choice whether you’re looking for standard strap-on play, or a spot of pegging.
Get full details (and price) for the Lovehoney Desire Remote Control Vibrating Strap-On Kit here.
Remote control strapless strap-ons
This is where things start to stray from the traditional style. You’d think that an essential part of a strap-on would be straps? Well not anymore! Those sex-toy design technicians have come up with a clever alternative to the harness.
Essentially, strap-less strap-ons are designed to be inserted and held in place by the wearer’s vagina.
Obviously, this design isn’t quite as secure as a full harness strap-on. But without any straps to worry about, it allows for much more spontaneous play, and closer penetration with more skin-to-skin contact.
This type of strap-on is becoming increasingly popular, and there are now a good selection to choose from.
Strap-On-Me Remote Control Vibrating Strapless Strap-On
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Tracey Cox Supersex Remote Control Strapless Strap-On Vibrator
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Lovehoney Double Down Strapless Strap-On
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Bondara 10 Function Remote Control Double Headed Vibrator
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Remote control strap-ons for pegging
You may think that a strap-on is a strap-on, regardless of how you use it, whether that’s for vaginal or anal penetration. And in a lot of cases, that’s true.
But some strap-ons are specifically designed for pegging (i.e. ladies taking their male partner up the bum). That’s what we’re talking about here.
Tracey Cox Supersex Remote Control Strap-On Pegging Kit
The 6-inch vibrating dildo comes with ridges to increase pleasure, and a shaped head for prostate stimulation. The harness can also accommodate different dildos, so if you want to ease your partner in (so to speak), you can swap it out for something a bit smaller (or bigger if you’re feeling brave!)
Get full details and price here.
Remote control double ended strap-ons
What’s better than a strap-on? Double strap-ons, obviously! Especially when they come with remote controls.
These take things a step further than strapless strap-ons, and are designed specifically for penetration of the wearer, too.
Bondara Two-Timer Remote Vibrating Double Strap-On
The two-timer from Bondara is pretty self-explanatory. It comes with two vibrating dildos, one for the wearer, and another for the ‘receiver’.
Both dildos come with independent controls, so you can tailor the vibrations based on each of your sensitivity.
The only downside to this model, is that the remote controls are wired. So not the fully remote, or app controlled devices we’ve become accustomed to. That said, this is a great addition to anyone’s collection, at a bargain price.
Get full details and price here.
Together Toy Remote Control Couple’s Rabbit Vibrator
Ok, so ‘technically’ this one isn’t a strap-on, but we couldn’t leave it out.
This is clearly one for the ladies, a redesign of the classic rabbit vibrator we all know and love, especially for couples play.
5 inches of insertable length, combined with the classic rabbit-ears, work together for both internal and clitoral stimulation.
It comes with its own remote control, multiple vibration modes, is waterproof, rechargeable, and even has a travel lock to avoid that awkward buzzing from your suitcase!
Get full details and price here.
Extra large remote control strap-ons
We’ve already looked at smaller strap-ons, but sometimes, bigger is better. And as always, we try to deliver something for everyone.
Bondara Big Smoothie Remote Control Strap-On
We’ve done some digging into what’s available and come up with our favourite: the ‘Big Smoothie’ 9 inch remote control strap-on from Bondara.
With a 9-inch insertable length, and 2 inches of girth this is a pretty substantial dildo!
It comes with its own remote control with 7 vibration functions for your delight! USB charging means you don’t have to worry about batteries, either.
Unlike strapless models, this comes with a proper harness to keep that large member secure when you’re thrusting. This can accommodate up to a 60 inch waist.
It also comes with a nifty function which allows the dildo to be rotated within the harness. Point he curved tip upwards for G-spot stimulation, or twist it downwards for a prostate massage!
A suction cup on the end of the detachable dildo means it’s even ideal for solo play when your partner isn’t around.
Get full details and price here.
What’s next for strap-ons?
Although strap-ons haven’t quite caught up with the technology you get in a lot of the other adult toys, there has been an increase in innovation recently. The fact that we now have remote control vibrating strap-ons is already way beyond the basic dildo with a harness that we’re used to seeing.
As you’ve already seen, a lot of designs have done away with clumbersome harnesses, and turned them into a discrete device that would be at home in anyone’s toy collection.
Hopefully we’ll soon see phone app controls, the likes of which are already common for remote control butt plugs, vibrating love eggs, and remote control vibrating knickers.
One company that look like they’re pushing the boundaries in this area, are SkiiMoo Tech, with their new VDOM device.
In their own words: “The VDOM is an app-connected adult wearable that goes from flaccid to erect at the push of a button”. This goes well beyond the relms of being simply a sex-toy, and opens up real potential as a functional prosthetic.
The device is still in development, but you can find out more about it on the VDOM website here.